He regularly referred to sex as “getting busy,” or “knocking boots,” which is a lot more of a turn-off when such phrases are used on the first date, believe me.The idiosyncrasy that would finally drive me crazy was his habit of shouting “boo-yeah!Even though this guy and I were 25 years apart, we had a lot in common. I didn't know then that our age gap would define the relationship.
His job also keeps him pretty responsible, because who wants to get fired for being an ass? He has a legit job and that means he isn't as flexible as a guy who's still in school.
His hours are his hours and neither he nor I can change them, no matter how much I need him to be at my best friend's housewarming party on Tuesday night. Older guys usually come with at least one serious ex who's still in love with him or who hates you publicly, especially since you're probably younger than her. Being with an older guy means you have to have the confidence to deal with his exes, and other girls his age.
” whenever he made a particularly funny joke, saw something interesting, or really just anytime he felt like it. I could not deal with Sam’s wardrobe, and as much as I know all 42-year-old men don’t dress as badly as he did, I’m still sort of traumatized.
Take threesomes, for example: fun in theory, but not so much when the wrong group makes things a ménage à disaster.
Looking at her post history, I think he set the whole thing up so her could meet her and I'm freaked out.
I [23 F] told my partner [27M] I love him after, a month shy of our first year or dating.I never had the patience to deal with someone who wasn't mature enough for me.Even as I get older, I look at some of the guys my age and think, "Wow, how can any girl ever put up with that." Not all guys are like this.He explained 'It seems dumb to me' for the reason he hasn't said it back - it's been 3 weeks.His response makes me think he simply doesn't want to commit, I'm exhausted, how much do I patiently endure?Older guys, whether they are much older or just a couple years older, always seem to be my choice when it comes to dating.