(as in holding hands or putting his arm around me), he always assumes that if I'm with a friend then my plans with him for after are cancelled, & he frequently ditches me for his brother or older korean friends. I would like to know what things I should be sure & avoid doing so I won't offend him or his friends & family. Also, I am meeting his parent this Christmas is Korea! I know he loves me, but there is an age difference. his dry sense of humor kills you, and dang those eyes!
Hey ya'll, So I've been dating my boyfriend off & on for over a year, we met in Chinese class :)Unfortunately there are some things that confuse me & sometimes make me upset, but he says it's because of a difference in cultures.For example, he wouldn't let me hug him in front of his brother, he is very shy & reserved when it comes to simple p.d.a.Dating someone younger—whether you’re two or three years his senior or are talking cougar territory—certainly can work (look at Eva Longoria and her 4-years younger beau), but being an “older woman” in a relationship does tend to come with certain perks and downfalls.If you want to make things work, be sure you can handle the following. Men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone, while women typically reach theirs in their 30s and 40s.Remember, girls are the ones who like to play detective games with clues and such.
Guys never put in that much effort, except when they stop calling you back.Add the fact that younger guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven.“A younger man has more energy and is more willing to try things,” says Lindsay Slosberg, dating expert for the app Let’s Date.“In turn, doing new things increases dopamine in the brain, triggering a desire to spend more time together and assisting in lighting your sexual fire.”An even bigger bedroom bonus?But a Korean motto is quite the opposite; for example, a Korean woman will dress to a T with designer clothes, high-quality makeup and five-inch heels...if you compliment her on any of these stylish choices, her response will probably be something like, "Oh this? " It's considered rude to gloat on a compliment..truth be told, both men and women consider appearance to be high on their list of criteria when choosing a partner, because it's not just the person you spend weekends with, it's the person you're going to be I'm not going to pretend like Korean guys are going around holding doors for women and opening car doors, but couples are often seen together, the man holding the woman's purse and/or books, while also holding her hand. Maybe....but, probably it's more a case of plain old-fashioned chivalry. Apparently you can have your cake and eat it too...I'm going to say something that's probably not going to be very popular, but in the United States, feminism killed chivalry. most Korean women have the same amount of education and advancement in the career world as their male counterparts, yet the man still has to hold her purse?Once they get over their initial shyness, you will find that many Korean men will want to ask you out or just to get to know you better.